The Negative Thinker Creates Its Own Awful Reality
A negative thinker is someone who expects the worst. They just know things are going to turn out badly, no matter what the potential might be for success. They see the world as a greedy, selfish and conniving place, full of people who are ready to “get the best of them” every chance they get.
They expect others to lie, cheat and steal. They assume that they won’t get the promotion and what’s worse, it will be given to the new guy that they trained. They believe that they will always live payday to payday because they just can’t seem to get ahead. And no matter how hard they might try, the Universe just seems to be out to get them.
The ironic thing is, negative thinkers are usually right. They won’t get that promotion and they’ll always have the experience of just barely making ends meet. They’ll encounter the rudest of people, pay the highest of prices and find that they suffer a variety of setbacks, illnesses and defeats. “I knew this was going to happen,” they’ll tell you and in truth, they absolutely did.
This is because for the negative thinker, their real desires – the abundance, prosperity and happiness – are overwhelmed by their belief that things are never good. Rather than give their attention and energy to the things they truly want, they instead focus on all the bad things that might be coming their way.
We know that, the Universe simply responds to your flow of energy…
…doesn’t come into the equation.
The negative thinker clings to this mindset because it prevents them from being disappointed. After all, if they expect the worst, they won’t have to deal with the emotional letdown when the worst comes along. If however, things turn out well, that’s just a nice surprise.
This kind of thinking gives the negative thinker a sense of control. They get exactly what they expect and while it isn’t really what they want, they know how to prepare for what’s coming.
You might know such people. They are the friends who always seem to have the worst “luck”. For example:
· Their car breaks down every other day..
· Their washing machine just went out to boot…
· Maybe they’re having marital difficulties but you notice that they don’t really seem to be doing anything to fix the problem…
· They just seem content with complaining about how bad things are at home…
· Maybe they’ve lost their job and can’t find a new one or they have a job, but it’s the worst place in the world to work. Of course, they don’t bother looking for something better or if they do, “no one wants to hire them”…
Life just seems to be an endless stream of bad experiences for these people and while you might want to help your friend pull out of their rut, they have a counter argument for every solution you might offer.
If you’re a negative person, or if you find yourself falling into the negativity trap, let me help. The first technique you will learn here will help you avoid negative spirals. It’s called The Energy Shield.
The Energy Shield is a technique to prevent negative thoughts or the negative energies of others from affecting you. Think of it as wrapping yourself in a protective bubble of energy. A separate blog posting will be made on ENERGY SHIELD.
You may not be a negative thinker, but you may be “ordinary.” These are people who have good things in their life, but rarely strive for more. Worse, they often worry about losing what they have.
I’ve got news for you....
A negative thinker is someone who expects the worst. They just know things are going to turn out badly, no matter what the potential might be for success. They see the world as a greedy, selfish and conniving place, full of people who are ready to “get the best of them” every chance they get.
They expect others to lie, cheat and steal. They assume that they won’t get the promotion and what’s worse, it will be given to the new guy that they trained. They believe that they will always live payday to payday because they just can’t seem to get ahead. And no matter how hard they might try, the Universe just seems to be out to get them.
The ironic thing is, negative thinkers are usually right. They won’t get that promotion and they’ll always have the experience of just barely making ends meet. They’ll encounter the rudest of people, pay the highest of prices and find that they suffer a variety of setbacks, illnesses and defeats. “I knew this was going to happen,” they’ll tell you and in truth, they absolutely did.
This is because for the negative thinker, their real desires – the abundance, prosperity and happiness – are overwhelmed by their belief that things are never good. Rather than give their attention and energy to the things they truly want, they instead focus on all the bad things that might be coming their way.
We know that, the Universe simply responds to your flow of energy…
…doesn’t come into the equation.
The negative thinker clings to this mindset because it prevents them from being disappointed. After all, if they expect the worst, they won’t have to deal with the emotional letdown when the worst comes along. If however, things turn out well, that’s just a nice surprise.
This kind of thinking gives the negative thinker a sense of control. They get exactly what they expect and while it isn’t really what they want, they know how to prepare for what’s coming.
You might know such people. They are the friends who always seem to have the worst “luck”. For example:
· Their car breaks down every other day..
· Their washing machine just went out to boot…
· Maybe they’re having marital difficulties but you notice that they don’t really seem to be doing anything to fix the problem…
· They just seem content with complaining about how bad things are at home…
· Maybe they’ve lost their job and can’t find a new one or they have a job, but it’s the worst place in the world to work. Of course, they don’t bother looking for something better or if they do, “no one wants to hire them”…
Life just seems to be an endless stream of bad experiences for these people and while you might want to help your friend pull out of their rut, they have a counter argument for every solution you might offer.
If you’re a negative person, or if you find yourself falling into the negativity trap, let me help. The first technique you will learn here will help you avoid negative spirals. It’s called The Energy Shield.
The Energy Shield is a technique to prevent negative thoughts or the negative energies of others from affecting you. Think of it as wrapping yourself in a protective bubble of energy. A separate blog posting will be made on ENERGY SHIELD.
You may not be a negative thinker, but you may be “ordinary.” These are people who have good things in their life, but rarely strive for more. Worse, they often worry about losing what they have.
I’ve got news for you....
What you fear to lose – you almost always will lose. Unless, that is, you learn to give up your fear.
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